Romaine recommended 42nd Street Oyster Bar.
6309 Hillsborough St Raleigh, NC 27606 919-859-2544
If you're willing to travel a few hours for good 'cue, Will Sall recommended Hursey's in Graham, which is supposedly legendary. He also recommended Allen & Son, which is between Chapel Hill and Durham.
During the day, we got catering from Irregardless Cafe in Raleigh. Great organic, local food, including the best sweet potato salad I've ever had. And I don't like sweet potatoes.